Getting smarter by the day huh

Well, being followed by a toddler to EVERY WHERE that you go, is typically normal for mommies. Lana follows me all the time even to the toilet and every corner of the house.

I have to bath, pee pee or poo poo in front of her. I always wonder, dont you smell the “stinky perfume” coming out from the toilet ? Frankly, no. She happily stands in front of me making conversation.

But yesterday, while I was doing my business, FINALLY her smell sense comes into place. She walked in the toilet and said ” Smelly smelly” and took 5 steps behind.

Finallllyyy!

Will I get private time in the bathroom after this? Hmm.. we shall see. #15April2016

The unbiased Lana

So this morning, in the car, while sending daddy to work, we listened to “Hancur Aku” song by Estranged & Fazura and……..this happened :

Daddy & Umi: Hancurrr.. Hancuurrrrr  (We sang until the song ended)
Lana: Nakk.. Nak hancur. 
Daddy: U are so my baby! You listen to my song.
Umi: Your baby? What do you mean? She is my baby okay. (I said jokingly)
Daddy: Lana, are you daddy’s baby or Umi’s baby?

So both of us waited patiently for the answer. She took her time and she answered

Lana: Lana! 

Gulp!
My husband and I laughed out loud.

Daddy: Haha. Very wise, Lana. Im sure she thinks Im not going to be trapped with this question. 
Umi: Auww you’re playing the fair game. Okay ask her one more time. 
Daddy: Lana, are you daddy’s baby or Umi’s baby?
Lana: Lana!

So yeah… she is her own baby.

The joke is on you. HAHA

So yesterday, I came back from my hometown with Lana and my brother – who was very kind enough to drive me home from Kedah to PD – Thank you Nabil ! The journey was long but I enjoyed it as I got to catch up a bit of sibling session with my little brother along the 6-hour journey.

Along the way, I feel so excited to meet up with my husband after leaving him for 6 days! There was butterfly-in-the-tummy moments too! I can’t even sleep the night before. Over kan? Bottom line, both of us misses each other very dearly.

It was always good to have some space between the two of us once in a while -(although not encouraged by my mom so much) – so that both of us could realise the things that we miss about each other when one of us is not around. He got his time with his boys and I got my time with my family. So win-win situation.

When we arrived in KL, I called hubby and told him that we stopped by to pray. I also mentioned to him that I bought his favourite Nasi Lemak Royale. He got so excited and wanted to come back early.

But then again, his excitement is somewhat different. I don’t know how to explain but I sort of know that something is up.

As we were approaching Port Dickson, I told my brother that I think my husband is in the house waiting for me with a bouquet of flower. He laughed at me so hard saying “Poor you. Dream on, Sabrina. But I shall tell him, so that at least in your lifetime, you will get the surprise.”

Ceit! But………he got his point though. My husband is not the romantic kind of husband. He knows how to be romantic but he chose not too. He is romantic in his way like buying me a phone cover?? So yeah.

We parked and went up to the floor. Suddenly, I saw the house lights were on. I started to puzzle. As I enter the house, the hall was cold and lit up. I search for him. There was no sign of his shoe until I saw…………….

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I screamed till my lungs out. So happy and cannot believe that my intuition was correct. Immediately my brother was speechless. Jaw drop moments for both of us. Embarassed and stunned that his brother in law is romantic after all and what I had imagined was partially true! HAHA.

Booya ! I was right and he was wrong. Such an amazing feeling to know that my wishful thinking came true and he was absolutely wrong. So the joke is on you my bother!

My heart blooms from yesterday till now and maybe till another 10 years time because I know this bouquet is not coming any time soon. I shall find some magic potion to let the flowers stay fresh for another few more years. What say you?

Good night !

 

 

 

My mom screams on Hari Raya.

This year is our turn to celebrate Raya in my hometown. (Raya is a Muslim festive celebration after fasting for a month). I am quite pleased that this year Raya was as similar as my previous years,when I was still single and available. Familiar faces of families and friends came to visit my mom although my late father had left us 2 years ago.

My place has always been in the kitchen with my mom. We cook together and that is how we spent quality time together too. We talked while we cook. At the same time, we would wash clothes and hang them outside at the corridor.

So, one fine morning while we were cooking, I excused myself for Lana’s bathtime. I was in the room, opening her diaper and undressed her till I heard my mom screamed so loud “Aaaaaaaa! Aaaa! yuck. yuck. yuck”. I quickly ran down and asked her what happened. She said “I dont know, there’s something in the washer machine. Its slimy.” Then she screamed again. I asked “Where? Where?”. She quickly move the clothes and passed the slimy thing to me. End up, I screamed too.

Oh my gosh!!! It was sticky, slimy, wet and gross. I asked her what was it. She gave me an answer that I could NOT believe coming out from her mouth. She said, ” I don’t know. It must be one of your contraceptive thing. I cant believe I had to see this.” What??! I laughed so hard. HAHAHAHA. Make sense. Look at the shape. Looooong? Duuuhhh. HAHA

Although I still had not figure out what was in the washer machine, but THAT answer cracked me up so hard. So my mother is okay to see my contraceptive if I had one? LOL.

So this is how it looks like. Can you guess what was it?

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Look how sticky it is.

It is NOT a contraceptive. It was Lana’s Cool Fever pad that I use to cool down her temperature because she was having high fever. Ceitt! So much of a contraceptive.

Best 15-minute in Singapore

Last week we were in Singapore. Between the two of us, I was the tourist for the whole week and he was the boring working man there. HAHA. Lana and I would stroll around in Singapore after her morning nap; although my mum constantly reminded me to just stay in the room. My mother got worried if we would get kidnapped. Kidding! She was worried of our safety, of course. But, I knew I will be fine because Singapore is a pretty safe country and their pedestrian walking pavement was well-built. So pushing the stroller was no issue.

What’s more, I was couraged to go here and there because I made a friend name Rebecca from Malaysia too. She, like me, followed her husband for business trip and happened to have a baby boy same age as Lana. TING! TING! TING! We became friend instantly. HAHA.

We went lunch together, we plan jalan-jalan** together, we bring the kids to the park, we talk about babies and we were bankers! Bonus point there.  (Cant believe I am this kind of person now. LOL. What I do best nowadays is talking about babies and their stuff). So I did get to explore Singapore during my stay there. But I wished hubs was with us. Poor he had to do lots of work. Here are some pictures of Lana’s first playdate !

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Lana first friend name Ming Jun. Totally different from Lana. He is a cool and relax boy. Lana was all touchy touchy. She hold his feet and tapped his hand. HAHA

Anyway, Saturday comes and we were thrilled because finally we got to spend time together as family. We went to Gardens by the Bay at Marina City Park. It is a very beautiful place, full of different kind of flowers. Kids would love it as they will get to explore the grass, flowers, nature and whole other thing. If Lana was to walk that time, I would lose 10 kilos for sure!

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As the sun set, we make our way to Marina Bay Sands. There was a show scheduled at 7.30pm, a local informed us. We slowly walked there and explore the Marina. We got tired of walking and I suggested to hubs that I wanted to see the Marina hotel rooms. From where we stood, we were able to see the rooms very clearly. That was when my best 15-minute started! HAHA. Most of the tenants did not close their curtain and the rooms were lit up. We were condemning how small the room was (I guess that was their standard room), how cool that the curtain could be closed by a click, no manual closing needed okay.

So, as we were eyeballing the room I saw an old man in his towel, just finished bathing. Meh, boring. A few seconds later, a very young skinny girl came out of the bathroom too. She was in her rob. Woah! An old man and a very young girl? Hmmmmm, they caught our eyes! HAHA. I was watching them, amazed that they did not close their curtain. I could see her changing her clothes. To be frank, I cannot see anything. She wore her clothes behind the couch. All I can see is her figure, movement and what was she putting on. While the couple is getting ready, hubs and I were creating conversation for the two. HAHA.

The funny thing was, the young lady was constantly changing her clothes for many times. First, she put her skirt on and a blouse. Then she changed to wear denim pants and another clothes. Then she opened her pants back to change her panties (I swear! But honestly we did not see any private area, just the movement). Later she went to sit on the man’s lap, talked for a bit, continued to do her hair and make up. So yeah, we thought; okay our short movie has come to an end. Surprisingly, she changed again and wore checked pyjamas pants and a black t-shirt. Took her handbag and off they went for dinner or god-knows-where-they-were-going. Hubs and I were laughing hysterically at the young lady. She was all doll up then at last she decided to wear her pyjamas pants and went out. Or maybe…….who knew that was a Burberry checked pants? We are not loaded people, we would not know all that. To us, it looked like pyjamas pant.

Beside the couple, there was a lady beside their room who was busy packing clothes and stuff for straight 15 minutes. Hubs was more interested in her, as she was all busy in one spot but nothing seems to shift. On the upper floor, we saw another couple; both in their bathroom robes. They looked like they are fighting. When we just about to leave our funny hotel scenes, we saw a man entering his room while opening his clothes. I told hubs, he better not opening his pants while the curtain was wide opened. Unfortunately, it was sore to my eye that he did open the pant and we both saw the back part! We stood and walked away quickly from the spot before he saw us with embarrassment.

Yes, we were naughty but hey you hotel guests, why don’t you guys close the curtains! Bottom line, I had fun being silly with my husband. It was the best 15-minute spend with my hubs. We laughed hysterically and soon I realised this is one of the reasons why I fall in love with him. We were always like this when we were in Sydney. Good old times.

And where was Lana? She was sleeping, gone somewhere in her LaLa Land. LOL. Thank you babygirl for giving Umi and daddy some quality time.

Sometimes, the small silly things make me happy and just enough to make me feel thankful to love and to be loved.

Few hours till weekend. Happy working peeps!

NOTE: jalan-jalan means hang out in English.

Sniff. Sniff. Sniff.

Does your baby develop any habit or addiction? Mine? Oh yes! BIG YES!

Lana has developed sniffing-blanket habit for quite some time now. She would sniff to sooth herself and whenever she want to fall asleep. At first we thought, it is so cute! You gotta see her mouth and eyes when she sniffs the blanket (see below).

Our dear friend gave this blanket as baby gift when she was born. That friend really spoiled Lana I tell you! (In a good way of course. TQ Aunty Roz!) You would think. “Well… it is just a blanket. If it is missing, Sabrina can always go and buy it again. No biggie” But this blanket is different!

Lana has a few blanket which I bought myself and also gifts from others. But she loves the soft pink one because of the material. The material is super soft cotton and of course she just had to choose the expensive one as her favourite. So, if hilang mati I want to spend hundreds ringgit for a blankie.

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But this dainty habit of hers became not so cute anymore when we forgot to bring her blanket!

Urrgghh. It was horrible! We went to mamak to eat. So,she was sitting at the highchair. I knew she was sleepy. But since the stall was so near to our house plus we were eating roti canai only. So I thought she could “tahan” for a bit. At first, she played with us. Smiling from ear to ear! After a while, she got all restless because her soother was not there. She started screaming/restless/cranky. Not cute at all! So I finished my food quickly so that I can take her from hubs so that he can eat his food. But a few second before I could take her from hubs, Lana pulled hubs plate and all those dhal and curry gravy splashed onto hubs shirt. Poor him! All happened just because we did not bring her BLANKET. Or else, hubs and I could have eaten lunch peacefully.

I could say Lana’s blanket acts the same thing like baby pacifier. She can easily sleep with the blanket and also sooth her at any time without fail.

So yeah, thats the story of my Miss Lana with her super parah habit with her blankie. Does your baby develop any habit(s) too?

Baby crib, no?!

We have been hotel hopping for quite some time now. I think I can provide more precise PD hotel review than any other Tripadvisor reviewers. Lol. Maybe I shall share compact but sweet reviews for these hotels in another post.

Anyway, we checked in Avillion PD last Sunday. Before bed time, we requested for Lana’s bed.

Me: Hi, I would like to request for baby crib, please?

Hotel: Sorry mam. We do not have baby crib. (Suara confused like that..)

Me: But the reception told me the hotel does provide baby crib. I would just need to request dekat housekeeping dept. Ni housekeeping kan? (pelat kedah pon makin terkeluar….sebab pelik!)

Hotel: Yes, this is housekeeping. Sorry mam, kami tak ada baby crib.

Me: Its okay, thank you.


2 minutes later, hotel rang us and hubs answered…

Hotel: Hello sir, we only have baby cot. Is it okay for you?

Hubs: Errr, ok. But what’s the difference of baby cot and crib? (laughing!)

Hotel: Not sure (laughing too!) I dont know baby crib but we have baby cot. 

Hubs: We take it! Tq. 

We laughed hard. Hubby teased me for being so Aussie.

Grrrr.. baby crib and baby cot samalah !!